Rev.2.5 “REMEMBER therefore from whence thou art fallen, and repent, and do the first work;r else I will come unto thee quickly and remove your candlestick
A little adjustment is always better than a lengthy argument,
A meaningful silence is better than meaningless words.
ADJUSTMENT
A behavioural process, alteration,movement made to achieve a desired fit,
B. Attempt to maintain equilibrium among various needs and societal obstacles.
C. Adjustment must be preceded by a feeling of needs.
D. Adjustment must end when satisfaction is attained.
A networthy action by which we maintain a balance between environmental forces and essential needs of life.
A conscious and monolithic efforts to accommodate,adapt, conform and reconcile on some Issues.
Changes in behaviour towards better life,better relationship.
Successful adjustment is critical to having a high quality life style.
Features of Life void of adjustment
1.Clinical anxiety, nervous,sense of impending doom,hyperventilation, breathing problem.
2.Depression
3.Feeling of hopelessness
- Difficulty in concentration
4.Reckless behaviour
5.sleeplessness .
WHY RESENTMENT “Resentir” TO ADJUSTMENT
1.Fear of loosing some thing/one valuable.
2.Fear of inability to adapt to a new change/Features
Worths of Adjustment
1.Maturity in thinking
2.Emotional balance
3.Warm and undestanding towards other.
4.Fredom from tension due to routine events
5.Independent on decision making.
A grudge against changes is an attempt to play God.
Iam the Lord I change not; Mal.3.6
God was only referring to His patience,mercy and long suffering.
God equally subscribed to Adjustment.e.g
God was moved to adjust in Gen.6.3. My spirit must not forever be disgraced in man,wholly evil is.I will give him 120 years to mend his ways. - Moses in Ex.32.11-14,entreated the Lord and the Lord changed His mind.
AREAS OF ADJUSTMENT.
1.Relationchip.
2.Academic
3.Cultural.
4.Emotional
5.Financial.
6.Intellectual
7.Social.
8.Apetite.
9.Appearance.
TUNES TO REMEMBER
1 Until you work on your mind to adjust,you can’t change anything.
All things are difficult before they are made easy. - The pains of Adjustment can’t be compared in content and virtue to pains of staying stuck somewhere you don’t belong.
- Don’t change goals you can’t reach,just adjust the action and process.
- It is aberration to live life the same way, same day over and over and call it life,No,life is about evolving mentally, spiritually and emotionally.
- complaints about the wind, is always made by pessimist,expectation of change is by optimists,the realist does the adjustment.
Grace.
** Receive grace to make appropriate,relevant and timely change.
** Life will never remain the same with you again.
** Wisdom to accept and adjust comes on you from now on.