Nigerian men dying to impress side chicks – Experts expose dark truth about sex enhancers

Experts have expressed concerns over the incidents of some men slumping and dying during sexual activities, mostly with other women in hotels.

News reports states that the trend has become increasingly worrisome, where a good number of folks, especially married men, have fallen to the fangs of the incident, with a Kogi State University don, Dr. Olabode Abimbola Ibikunle, emerging as the latest victim of the menace.

Similarly, a man simply identified as Mr. Louis Nwachukwu, an employee of the Transmission Company of Nigeria (TCN), was found dead in a hotel located in the Mpape area of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), Abuja.

The deceased was said to have checked into the hotel with a woman named Miss Helen Raymond before his death.

Speaking to reporters, a Clinical Psychologist/Mental Health Therapist, Mcfredericks Akor Edache, said one reason males seek to enhance sexual pleasure is to impress females, warning that this has deadly consequences.

Edache stated that the epidemic of the death toll that arises following the hypersexual response phase is characterized by prolonged erection in males and delayed ejaculation and orgasm in both males and females.

The mental health therapist said naturally, the sexual response phase is characterized first by foreplay, where sexual organs are stimulated by caressing and fondling, adding that this usually prepares the consensual adults for a beautiful sexual fantasy.

According to him, these sexual response phases happen unaided by any artificial response such as sex enhancement drugs or herbs or anything else intended to alter the natural process by increasing it.

The Clinical Psychologist added that females usually do not gasp for air during rounds of sexual response like males because the strenuous exercise is tiring, which is why most males sleep off after sexual activity, regardless of the rounds, adding that no male should be threatened by females who may consider them a one-minute man or a weak man.

“It suffices to note here categorically that the first round of any sexual activity is the most pleasurable; the second round and other rounds are often characterized by fake and pseudo fantasy and orgasm, usually by the male to impress the female to prove sexual agility.

“The female gender usually comes later in sexual climax compared to the male that comes earlier. Now, because of this natural phenomenon, some males take to sexual enhancement in order to equate the arrival time of their female counterpart. In order to do this, they take sexual enhancement, which stretches the normal sexual response phases by ensuring blood flow to the erogenous zones, especially the genital area.

“This blood flow to these extremities may reduce blood flow to other vital organs necessary for survival, and the absence of adequate blood flow could affect respiration, and death may occur. Shortage of blood in the body is disastrous, which is why patients are given blood when they’re running short of it.

“The sight of a succulent nude female is usually irresistible, but the satisfaction can come at the same time if foreplay goes well. Men shouldn’t go into the women soon after seeing the irresistible sight; rather, take time to do foreplay so as to begin the process of the organism for her so that when the man finally goes in, the arrival time at climax will be almost the same,” he said.

On his part, a Kwara State-based lecturer, Hassan Alowonle, said having sex is natural and one of the features of every human, plant, and organism, stressing that the incident of “from pleasure to grave” has become a norm in Nigeria, where some men have been reported to have visited the last abode during sexual intercourse.

He said that scientists have underscored several ways in which reproduction occurs among all creatures. However, in the course of deriving pleasure among humans, some men transposed into sex prey—painting sex a horrible and disgusting image.

According to him, death records of men during sexual exercise are multifaceted, but an average Nigerian will frame it with voodoo or woman fetishism, emphasising that before people get married or have sexual intercourse, it is very crucial for both parties to undergo medical fitness to know the physical and sexual capabilities of both parties.

Alowonle said, like other exercises, sex is another form of exercise, but if someone is not careful, the exercise may lead to death, stressing that medical experts made it known that heart diseases can lead to death if someone suffering from such sickness doesn’t take precautions. This means our hearts work faster during sexual intimacy, and for someone with heart disease, sex should be normalized; hence, death is certain.

He added that the use of drug enhancement drugs or substances should be avoided or minimized due to the lethal effects of such substances on the health and well-being of the users.